and I don’t know what to do. Well 1st off he has his own life and he’s married I do not interfere with his life at all, I care about him as a friend but the thing is he’s so worried about my life and income and he’s so worried about my financial statuses. He basically tries to run my life and tells me what I should do and do not do with it, I never do that to him. I know he doesn’t get out much he basically sits at home and plays World Of Warcraft and he tells me to get out more when I have a band and jam sessions, I have more of a social life than he does. The bottom line is how can I tell him to stop trying to run my life?
I’m happy that he’s married and has a house good for him and he has done a lot for me as a friend but he needs to learn to live his own life and not live through mine, he has a wife and his responsibilities.
Sorry that this was long.


”Hey buddie. I understand that you are trying to be a good friend and you are. but dont get me wrong but could you give me some space? i appreciate everything that you do for me i just need to live my life. and you can live yours.
thats what i would say to him. hoped this helped. good luck with yoour friend. oh and yeah dont be to harsh when you tell him to give ya some space…stuff like that hurts.
He’s just trying to look out for you.
Explain to him that your financially secure, your enjoying your life and have a steady income.
If you don’t, I would act on his advice.